When interacting with nannies with limited education in family gatherings, maintaining a polite and respectful attitude is the key. Here are some specific suggestions to help you maintain a friendly atmosphere while naturally reducing conversations.： --- ### **1. Set a clear scope of responsibilities in advance** -**Polite description**: Before the party, you can gently inform: "Auntie, today you are mainly responsible for the arrangement of dinner plates and the care of your children, so that you can relax. "It not only clarifies the division of labor, but also avoids temporary embarrassment. -**Provide alternative tasks**: For example, ask her to help take care of the children or organize the tableware, giving her a sense of participation while reducing the need for small talk. --- ### **2. End the topic politely with a short response** -**Affirmation + transfer**： -When she mentioned the home cooking: "Thank you for sharing, your children especially like the dishes you cook! By the way, would you like to see if they need help? " -End the conversation with specific compliments: "You cleaned up so neatly, just leave it to us next. " -**Exit naturally**: After smiling and nodding, he turned to the other guests: "You are busy first, I will greet Uncle Wang and the others. " --- ### **3. Reduce the chance of individual conversations with the help of the environment** -**Arrange group interaction**: Guide her to participate in matters that do not require in-depth communication, such as distributing snacks, taking care of children's areas, or preparing items with others. -**Space separation**: Place buffet points in the area where guests gather to reduce one-on-one contact. --- ### **4. Maintain respect and avoid sensitive topics** -**Don't ask about personal experience**: If she mentions life chores, simply respond: "It doesn't sound easy" and then turn to neutral topics such as weather or diet. -**Avoid educational differences**: If you don't mention academic-related topics, such as reading, exams, etc., you can talk about daily life: "The weather has turned cold recently, so remember to add clothes. " --- ### **5. Express gratitude afterwards** -After the party, he took the initiative to say: "Thanks to your help today, the children had a great time. "It's not only affirming to pay, but also avoiding long-term communication on the spot. --- ###**Key principles** - **Equal attitude**: Avoid showing a condescending tone, call "you", and keep smiling. -**Nonverbal signals**: Gradually slow down the speed of speech, reduce eye contact during the conversation, and turn in other directions with the body to indicate the end of the conversation. Through the above methods, you can naturally reduce the frequency of conversations while maintaining the dignity of the nanny and ensure the smooth progress of the party.