Avoiding unnecessary communication with restaurant waiters is not a behavior worth advocating. Restaurant waiters, like other professions, deserve to be treated with respect and courtesy. Communicating with them in an empathetic and equal manner is a basic social literacy. Everyone is working hard for life, and the restaurant waiters provide dining-related services. Simple smiles, polite responses, and positive interactions such as thanks can not only make them feel respected, but also help to create a good dining atmosphere, enhance the entire dining experience, and show their own cultivation and kindness. If you really need to reduce communication for some special reasons, such as if you want to eat quietly, you can express your needs succinctly and clearly when the waiter comes to serve, and then stay focused on the meal, rather than deliberately avoiding or showing unfriendly behavior, so that it will not hurt the waiter, but also meet your own specific situation.The demand.