It is a painful experience for parents to hurt themselves, and we cannot simply say whether to ignore it. On the one hand, it may not be realistic to completely ignore these injuries, because they will leave traces in the heart, affecting emotions, self-cognition and interpersonal relationships. Long-term backlog may lead to the breeding of psychological problems. On the other hand, always entangled in these injuries is not conducive to one's own growth and mental health. Maybe you can try: - **Frank communication**: When appropriate, calmly express your feelings to your parents and tell them what their behaviors have hurt you to see if you can promote mutual understanding and improve the relationship. - **Self-care**: Pay attention to your own emotions and needs, care for yourself through sports, hobbies, and communication with friends to alleviate the impact of the injury. - **Keep distance**: If the situation still cannot be changed after communication, maintain an appropriate emotional distance to a certain extent, reduce direct conflicts, and take care of yourself first. - **Seek support**: For example, talk to other trusted elders, friends or professional psychological counselors, get strength and advice from them, and help yourself out of the predicament. The key is to pay attention to your own feelings and deal with the injury in a positive and healthy way, rather than blindly ignoring or getting stuck in it.