Using inappropriate and impolite words to describe other people's appearance and discussing it privately is disrespectful and immoral, which will hurt other people's feelings and is not conducive to the establishment of good interpersonal relationships. We should advocate a positive, friendly and respectful attitude towards others, and try to avoid paying attention to such content that may cause unpleasantness. Moreover, paying too much attention to other people's negative private discussions will bring unnecessary troubles and psychological burdens to yourself. It is recommended that you remain open-minded and confident, focus on your own strengths and the positive aspects of work and life, and do not let such negative things affect your emotions and state. If you encounter this situation, you can also try to communicate with colleagues in an appropriate way and advocate a civilized and harmonious communication atmosphere.