When faced with such a choice, it is necessary to comprehensively consider many factors such as ethics, risk, personal ability, and long-term impact. The following are some key thinking directions and suggestions： --- ### 1. **Ethics and fairness issues** -**Academic integrity**: The reputation of top universities is based on fair competition and academic excellence. Lowering the threshold for admission through personal relationships may violate the principle of educational fairness and harm the rights and interests of other applicants. -**Influence on friends**: Professors who abuse their power may face serious professional risks (such as dismissal, end of academic career), and even legal accountability. You may also be burdened with psychological pressure or cracks in your interpersonal relationships as a result. --- ### 2. **Potential risks** -**Consequences of exposure**: If the matter comes to light, you may be disqualified from admission, dropped out of school, or even blacklisted for academic misconduct, affecting future further studies or employment. -**Ability matching problem**: Even if you successfully enroll in school, if the gap between your own ability and the school's requirements is too large, you may face academic pressure, frustration, or even the risk of not being able to graduate. --- ### 3. **Perspective on personal growth** -**Shortcut vs. Self-realization**: True growth comes from one's own efforts. Striving for admission through formal channels can accumulate experience and abilities even if the results are not as expected; and dependence may weaken your self-confidence and independence. -**Long-term reputation**: Integrity is an important asset in academic and professional careers. Once “going through the back door" may become a hidden danger that will be difficult to erase in the future. --- ### 4. **Alternative proposal** -**Self-improvement**: Focus on strengthening academic performance, extracurricular activities or scientific research experience, and apply through formal channels. -**Seek legal support**: Ask professors and friends to guide you in a legitimate way (such as letters of recommendation, academic suggestions), rather than operating in violation of regulations. -**Consider other options**: If the current conditions are insufficient, you can enter the matching school first, and then apply for the target institution through the transfer or postgraduate stage. --- ### 5. **Ask yourself** -If you are found to have come in by “relationship” after entering school, can you face the eyes of your classmates and teachers calmly? -Are you willing to let this experience become a “stain” in your life and may even affect your future career development? --- ### Summary **It is not recommended to use this relationship**. True success needs to be won by one's own efforts. This is not only respect for others, but also responsibility for oneself. Instead of relying on shortcuts, it is better to devote your energy to improving your own strength-whether you eventually enter this school or not, you will become a better person. If you still hesitate, you can further communicate your concerns frankly with your professor and friends, and clearly refuse any illegal actions. True friends will respect your principles and are willing to support you in a legitimate way.