When communicating with couriers, respect and courtesy are the most important. Although the education of the couriers may not be high, they have put in hard work in their work and deserve the respect of each of us. Here are some suggestions that can help you reduce the depth of communication when picking up, while maintaining courtesy and respect： 1. **Prepare in advance**: Before the courier arrives, prepare the information required for pickup, such as pickup code, ID card, etc. This can reduce the communication time during pickup. 2. **Concise and clear**: When communicating, try to use short and clear language. For example, just say “This is my pickup code, thank you” or “This is my ID, please check”. 3. **Use nonverbal communication**: If possible, you can express your meaning through gestures or nods to reduce language communication. For example, when the courier hands you a package, you can smile and nod your head to express your gratitude. 4. **Be polite**: Even if you want to reduce communication, maintain basic courtesy. A simple "thank you” or “Thank you for your hard work” can express your gratitude. 5. **Avoid small talk**: If you don't want to have too much communication, you can politely avoid small talk. For example, when the courier tries to open the topic, you can smile and say, “Sorry, I'm a little busy, let's talk next time.” 6. **Use scientific and technological means**: Some courier companies provide self-service pickup services or courier cabinets. You can choose these methods to reduce direct communication with the courier. 7. **Respect each other's time**: Couriers are usually busy at work, respect their time, and try to complete the pickup process as quickly as possible to avoid unnecessary delays. In short, reducing the depth of communication does not mean indifference or neglect. In the above ways, you can reduce the communication time with the courier while maintaining courtesy and respect. Remember, everyone is working hard for their own lives, and the work of couriers is also worthy of our understanding and respect.