Suggesting that the other party's family background is not decent enough in the conversation may hurt the other party and even destroy your relationship. Therefore, I recommend maintaining respect and empathy under all circumstances, and avoiding using words that belittle or harm others. If you want to discuss topics related to your family background, here are some more constructive and respectful ways： 1. **Ask about the other person's experience**: Ask about the other person's growth experience with an open and curious attitude, showing that you are interested in their life stories. For example: “What was your home like when you were a kid?" Can you share it with me? ” 2. **Express understanding and empathy**: If the other party mentions some challenges or difficulties in the family background, express your understanding and empathy. For example: “It sounds like you have experienced a lot, it's really not easy. ” 3. **Share your own experience**: Create an equal dialogue environment by sharing your own family background. For example: “My family used to have some financial difficulties, so I especially understand how you feel. ” 4. **Avoid judgment**: Regardless of the other party's family background, avoid making any form of judgment or comparison. Everyone has their own stories and experiences, and their uniqueness is respected. 5. **Guide positive topics**: If the conversation involves family background, you can try to guide to more positive topics, such as the other party's achievements, dreams or future plans. For example: "Despite these challenges, your current achievements are really remarkable. How did you do it?“ ” In any dialogue, maintaining respect, understanding and goodwill is the most important thing. In this way, you can build a deeper connection instead of creating barriers or harm.