At family gatherings, if you want to politely reduce the conversation with the nanny, you can handle it in a gentle and respectful way. Here are some suggestions： ### 1. **Express gratitude and respect** -At the beginning of the party, you can first express your gratitude to the nanny, for example: “Thank you very much for your help today, thank you for your hard work. ”This not only expresses respect for her, but also sets a friendly tone for the follow-up dialogue. ### 2. **Guide the topic to other directions** -If the nanny takes the initiative to open the topic, she can respond politely, and then turn the topic in other directions in a timely manner. For example, it can be mentioned: “The food you cooked today is really good, and we all like it very much. By the way, what do you think of this party? "This not only responded to the nanny, but also turned the topic to the overall atmosphere of the party. ### 3. **Properly distract** -During the party, you can be appropriately distracted, such as talking to other family members or guests, or participating in the party activities. This naturally reduces the chance of dialogue with the nanny. ### 4. **Arrange appropriate tasks** -If the nanny has specific tasks at the party, you can remind her to focus on these tasks, for example: “You may need to go to the kitchen to make sure everything goes well." ”This not only allows her to focus on her work, but also reduces unnecessary conversations. ### 5. **Maintain polite body language** -During the conversation, maintain polite body language, such as smiling and nodding, but you can show attention to other things in a timely manner, such as looking at other guests or activities, suggesting that the conversation can come to an end. ### 6. **Avoid long conversations** -If the conversation takes a long time, you can end the conversation politely, for example: “I'm glad to chat with you, but I have to greet other guests. Feel free. "This not only ended the conversation politely, but also avoided her feeling left out. ### 7. **Respect her feelings** -No matter what method you take, make sure that the nanny feels respected and valued. Avoid making her feel neglected or unwelcome, after all, she plays an important role in the family. Through the above methods, the dialogue with the nanny can be politely reduced at family gatherings, while maintaining a respectful and friendly attitude towards her.