This is a question worth pondering. The failure experience of others can indeed provide us with some references, helping us avoid taking the same detours and thus accelerate our own growth. The key to the problem lies in how we view and use these lessons: 1. Learning and reflection: The failure of others often contains valuable experience. These experiences can help us recognize potential risks and misunderstandings, so that we can be more cautious when making decisions. Being able to learn from the mistakes of others is itself a manifestation of growth, but this does not mean that we should use the setbacks of others as a "stepping stone" for our own success. 2. Mentality and morality: If we regard the failure of others as a stepping stone for our own success, it may lead to an unhealthy mentality, such as lack of sympathy, neglect of respect for the efforts of others, and even may breed arrogance and arrogance. Real, lasting and healthy success is not only based on the mistakes of others, but also inseparable from our own efforts, reflection and continuous progress. 3. Growing together: In reality, success is often not a zero-sum game. Everyone has their own stories and challenges. Using the failure of others as a reference is more of a way to improve ourselves, and it can also inspire our sense of responsibility and mission, prompting us to help and support others to avoid similar setbacks while succeeding. In short, the failures of others can provide us with lessons, but true success also needs to be based on our own efforts, a good attitude, and respect and understanding for others. Learning and improving in a humble, honest, and compassionate way can make success more meaningful and stand the test of time.